Working with Autistic Transgender and Non-Binary People

Executive Summary

This comprehensive guide illuminates the complex intersection of autism and gender diversity, challenging pathologizing frameworks while offering practical guidance for professionals, families, and communities. Approximately 30-40% of autistic people identify as transgender or non-binary—6-7 times higher than non-autistic populations—reflecting meaningful neurological connections rather than confusion or impairment.

The text introduces several transformative concepts that reframe professional understanding: monotropism explains how autistic cognition’s intense focus supports authentic gender self-knowledge; flattened priors describes reduced reliance on past experiences, enabling autistic people to question rigid social categories more readily than neurotypical people; and the double empathy problem reveals that mutual misunderstanding exists between autistic and non-autistic people rather than representing a unidirectional autistic deficit.

Crucially, the authors demonstrate how interoception differences affect 50% of autistic people (compared to 5-8% of the general population), creating unique pathways to gender self-knowledge that may involve delayed recognition but are no less authentic. They detail how sensory sensitivities and gender expression intersect inseparably—you cannot parse autism from gender identity when someone wears soft cotton clothing because rough textures feel like “sandpaper on skin” and those clothes also happen to align with their authentic gender.

The text documents systematic misdiagnosis patterns, with autistic people frequently misdiagnosed with schizophrenia, social anxiety, or borderline personality disorder for decades. One author endured 25 years of institutionalization and harmful medication before receiving proper diagnosis. The authors argue that masking—suppressing autistic traits to appear neurotypical—creates profound costs including permanent dissociation from the present moment, inability to enjoy experiences in real time, and accumulated self-loathing.

What sets this work apart is its framework for autistic burnout resulting from sustained camouflaging, and its illumination of the “passing paradox”: autistic transgender people must mask autism to be taken seriously about gender identity by clinics, yet this masking causes burnout that prevents further functioning. The text provides concrete assessment frameworks, clinical guidelines, and advocacy strategies rooted in youth liberation and disability justice principles.

The Neurodiversity and Gender Identity Intersection

Understanding Autistic-Gender Connections

Autistic people demonstrate significantly elevated rates of gender variance—approximately 30-40% of autistic people without learning difficulties identify with gender fluidity or non-binary identities. This rate is 6-7 times higher than in non-autistic populations, where approximately 1% identify as gender-diverse. This elevated co-occurrence reflects meaningful neurological and developmental connections rather than confusion or pathology.

Monotropism describes autistic cognition as intensely focused attention on interests, creating deep expertise rather than scattered attention. This cognitive style supports authentic gender self-knowledge by enabling autistic people to question rigid categories and recognize when social expectations don’t align with internal experience. The capacity for sustained, deep attention facilitates examination of gender assumptions that neurotypical people might accept without questioning.

Flattened priors refer to autistic people’s reduced reliance on past experiences to predict present possibilities. This cognitive difference enables autistic people to question rigid gender categories more readily than neurotypical people who internalize these categories through repeated social reinforcement. Many autistic people report being less motivated by social approval than neurotypical counterparts, making them less susceptible to social pressure to conform to assigned gender roles.

The Double Empathy Problem

The double empathy problem reveals that mutual difficulty in empathy exists between autistic and non-autistic people, rather than autistic people having unidirectional empathy deficits. This framework fundamentally reframes what professionals often label as “social difficulties”—recognizing it as bidirectional misunderstanding rather than autistic deficit. This distinction matters profoundly because it shifts the clinical focus from fixing autistic people to improving mutual understanding.

For autistic transgender and non-binary people, this dynamic compounds when professionals assume autistic people cannot understand their own gender identity. The professional’s inability to understand autistic communication patterns becomes misinterpreted as autistic confusion about gender. This misinterpretation leads to devastating consequences when professionals deny gender-affirming care based on presumed incompetence.

Systematizing and Gender Norm Analysis

Many autistic people exhibit systematizing—a rule-based thinking style that leads them to recognize gender norms as arbitrary systems that often fail internal logic. This cognitive approach supports authentic gender identity development by enabling recognition that social gender expectations are constructed rather than natural. The capacity to see systems as constructed enables authentic gender exploration beyond received scripts.

Interoception, Alexithymia, and Embodied Gender Experience

Interoceptive Differences in Autistic People

Interoception—the ability to perceive internal bodily states like heartbeat, hunger, temperature, arousal, and emotional intensity—is atypical in approximately 50% of autistic people. This compares to 5-8% of the general population. This foundational difference affects self-awareness, emotional recognition, and understanding of bodily experience in ways that professionals must understand rather than pathologize.

Alexithymia (difficulty identifying and describing emotions) frequently co-occurs with autism and is often worsened by chronic social pressure to suppress or override internal signals—a phenomenon called “social gaslighting.” Autistic people are repeatedly told their internal experience differs incorrectly from others’, creating disconnection from bodily knowing that compounds over time.

Gender Dysphoria Recognition Challenges

For transgender autistic people, gender dysphoria compounds interoceptive disconnection. Many report feeling dysphoria intensely but lacking the interoceptive access to articulate why for years or decades. This represents a different pathway to self-knowledge, not an absence of genuine identity.

Examples illustrate this reality vividly: one author knew from age four that she didn’t belong in girls’ spaces but didn’t understand why intellectually until graduate school. Another bound their chest for 17 years before comprehending their gender dysphoria in cognitive terms. These extended timelines reflect different processing, not confusion.

However, poor interoception does not invalidate gender identity. When interoception improves—through gender alignment, hormone replacement therapy, or therapeutic support—dramatic shifts occur in self-awareness, confidence, and autonomy. One older autistic transgender man reports that after transitioning and experiencing testosterone, his interoceptive sense improved, contributing to increased self-trust and reduced need for co-dependency.

Sensory Processing and Gender Expression

Sensory sensitivities directly intersect with gender expression through clothing choices. One author experiences certain tactile sensations (rough textures, buttons, zips, fluffy materials) as overwhelming—comparable to “sandpaper on skin”—making it nearly impossible to attend to anything else. This sensory reality necessitates wearing soft, simple cotton clothing like T-shirts and track pants, which appear casual and non-feminine by social standards.

While initially attributing this solely to autism, the author recognized these clothes were also more masculine and created a sense of “being more at home.” The conclusion: “it’s both”—sensory need and authentic gender alignment interact inseparably. This demonstrates how autism and gender identity cannot be parsed into discrete categories; they interact to shape real-world presentation and comfort.

Gender Identity Development and Cognitive Differences

Processing Speed and Recognition Delays

Autism affects gender identity development through multiple cognitive pathways. Processing speed, particularly slower processing of spoken words and body language, delays recognition of gender patterns in oneself. Face recognition difficulties and dependence on memory anchors (specific jewelry, hairstyles) can obscure connection between appearance-related gender markers and internal identity. Object permanence difficulties—understanding that something or someone exists even when not visible—create barriers to stable gender identity ownership.

Because things shift constantly for autistic people, persistent uncertainty about what is stable and trustworthy develops. This extends into sense of self; when significant others leave or relationships change, the sense of self destabilizes. Only through stepping into authentic gender does genuine stability emerge.

Late Identity Recognition

Research indicates 3-10 times more autistic individuals present at gender identity clinics compared to non-autistic populations. Gender identity exploration often extends beyond typical developmental timelines in autistic people, with many not questioning or exploring identity until late adolescence or adulthood.

This late recognition must not exclude possibilities of gender diversity; it reflects atypical development and poor interoceptive access, lack of autism awareness leading to misdiagnosis, absence of gender language or frameworks in earlier decades, and professional gatekeeping that refused to diagnose gender dysphoria in autistic individuals.

One author describes how, as a child, she identified with male characters and dressed masculinely, but internalized messages (from watching Rain Man) that autistic traits were “wrong,” leading her to suppress all self-expression. Without interoceptive connection to gender dysphoria and without language for gender diversity, she identified as a “butch lesbian” for decades—a framework that never felt right. She transitioned at age 62.

Executive Function and Identity Consolidation

Executive function impairments affect gender identity development through difficulty tracking patterns of dysphoria and euphoria over time, challenges with planning and executing social transition steps, organizational difficulties in maintaining different gender presentations across contexts, and problems with documentation and identity management across multiple systems.

Support requires visual organization tools, coaching support, and assistance breaking complex transition processes into manageable steps with concrete timelines and reminders. The cognitive load of managing transition while navigating executive dysfunction requires sustained, practical support rather than abstract discussion.

Masking, Scripting, and Social Performance

The Cost of Multiple Performance Demands

Masking (camouflaging autistic traits to appear neurotypical) frequently intersects with gender conformity. Some autistic people over-conform to gender norms as a form of masking, which can be psychologically devastating. The combined effort to suppress stimming, maintain neurotypical communication patterns, manage gender expression, and perform neurotypical social interaction creates exhaustion across multiple dimensions simultaneously.

Scripting (adopting constructed personas by learning behavioral sequences from peers, media, or observation) and precognition (pre-processing possible social interaction outcomes and planning to steer toward “win states” and avoid harm) are survival mechanisms in transphobic, ableist societies.

However, these techniques carry profound costs: permanent dissociation from the present moment, inability to enjoy what’s happening in real time, difficulty trusting positive feedback, sensitivity to any deviation from preconceived scripts, and accumulated self-loathing from decades of performing for others. One author describes being “in a permanently virtual state of potential futures, unable to process, enjoy or cherish what is happening in the moment.”

Gender Policing and Vulnerability

Drawing on feminist theory, gender is performatively constructed through repeated social acts rather than reflecting an inherent inner truth. Autistic ways of being—different communication styles, body language, social presentation, and sensory needs—naturally diverge from gendered expectations. This creates vulnerability to gender policing (social sanctions for non-conforming gender performance).

The Passing Paradox

Many autistic transgender people experience the “passing paradox”: they must mask autism to be taken seriously about gender identity by gender clinics and healthcare providers. Gender-affirming care providers often scrutinize autistic transgender patients more heavily, questioning whether they are “trans enough” or making inappropriate clinical comparisons.

This creates a cruel double bind: autistic people must suppress autistic traits to be believed about gender identity, yet this masking causes autistic burnout—complete exhaustion from sustained camouflaging that prevents further functioning. The emotional cost of passing as neurotypical while accessing affirming care is severe; many feel they had no alternative to accessing life-saving care.

Professional Support and Therapeutic Relationships

Foundational Principles: Openness, Clarity, Patience

Openness means setting aside pathological framings of both autism and trans/non-binary identities. Many autistic people can understand communication but only if it is directly, literal, and kindly communicated. Autistic individuals are as capable of missing intended hints as detecting hints that aren’t there. Trans/non-binary clients may similarly detect hostility that isn’t intended; clarity prevents this misunderstanding.

Clarity requires managing expectations while pushing against systemic barriers when necessary. For autistic service users, direct communication with explicit parameters is essential—for instance, explicitly clarifying when chosen names or pronouns should be used with parents versus other professionals, which may be a matter of safety.

Patience recognizes that both being trans/non-binary and being autistic are exhausting. Behavior appearing “unreasonable” often stems from cruelties experienced with consequences beyond their control, rooted in societal cissexism and ableism. This requires sustained, compassionate professional accompaniment without judgment.

Safe Professional Relationships

Safe professional relationships require practitioners to listen to autistic transgender and non-binary people’s own understanding of their identities, recognizing that they are experts on their own lived experience. Professionals must set aside personal biases and beliefs about gender, examining how gendered assumptions operate invisibly in professional practice.

They must recognize that gender identity exploration is valid self-knowledge, not pathology or confusion. Provide plain-language, concrete explanations and communication accommodations, understanding that autistic people require direct, literal, and kind communication. Practice correct pronouns consistently without pre-emptive apologies; when mistakes occur, apologize briefly and matter-of-factly, then continue.

Professionals should respect privacy and allow people to control disclosure of identity, being aware of who has access to written records. Validate identity while allowing for possible future changes, recognizing that identity development may extend beyond typical developmental timelines. Advocate on behalf of service users in hostile environments, using professional authority to protect vulnerable people. Recognize intersections of autism, gender variance, race, and other identities rather than treating these in isolation.

Assessment Frameworks and Tools

The Circles Exercise provides visual exploration of five major identity components: body, self, sexuality, social ties/romantic relationships, and autism. Each circle is presented using concrete examples (photos, videos, scripts) to ensure understanding. This allows professionals and autistic people to address identity facets, identify problematic components or conflicts, and develop targeted support before transition decisions.

Sensory Profile Assessment addresses whole-body sensory sensitivities through neutral, educational material using images and photos of general and intimate body parts, discussing sexual function, reproduction, and body image in factual terms. This makes accessing thoughts, representations, and feelings about the body easier through logical and factual exchange rather than emotional discussion.

Sexual Systems Theory positions the individual at center, expressing themselves through gender, eroticism, body, and emotional relationships. This explanatory grid guides discussion through associated themes exploring autistic person’s knowledge and experiences, addressing questions about self and identity construction.

Safeguarding and Vulnerability

Disproportionate Risks

Autistic transgender and non-binary people face disproportionate risks of sexual assault compared to cisgender and neurotypical counterparts. Research shows trans/non-binary people and autistic women have higher survival rates of sexual assault than their respective normative counterparts, indicating that assault occurs at elevated rates.

Autistic individuals face particular vulnerability to manipulation—both intentional and unintentional—due to reduced responsiveness to typical social learning. The power imbalance inherent in professional-client relationships requires acute awareness and active mitigation of exploitation risks.

Professional Safeguarding Responsibilities

When crimes are reported by autistic trans/non-binary people, their honesty must be presumed equal to any other crime victim; they must never be implicitly or explicitly blamed for victimization. Reduced susceptibility to social learning does not eliminate vulnerability to social power dynamics. Anxiety about being misunderstood or judged may push autistic trans/non-binary people toward over-compromising on their identities. Safeguarding becomes critical; professionals must help people recognize danger while never blaming them for victimization.

Intersectionality and Compounded Marginalization

Race, Colonialism, and Gender Diversity

Intersectionality—the understanding that race, disability, neurodivergence, and gender variance interact in unique ways—is central to supporting autistic transgender and non-binary people authentically.

Autistic transgender and non-binary people of color (BIPOC) navigate compounded complexities. Western binary gender frameworks often don’t align with cultural understandings of gender; many communities of color have centuries-long traditions of gender diversity: hijras in India, kathoey and phuying praphet song in Thailand, baklâ, bayot, and agî people in the Philippines, māhū in Hawaii, okule and agule among the Lugbara, muxes in Juchitán, and two-spirit people among Native/Indigenous communities.

White, Western colonizing notions of binary gender have uprooted and devastated these communities, imposing a framework foreign to their understanding. Autistic BIPOC transgender and non-binary people face compounded racism, ableism, and transphobia, creating barriers to accessing gender-affirming care and experiencing multiple forms of discrimination.

Representation and Exclusion

Representation of autism centers white autistic people, diminishing visibility of autistic people of color despite them forming the global majority within the autistic community. The trans community has historically centered non-disabled, white, thin, conventionally attractive, and ambiguously androgynous or transmasculine people, leaving disabled trans people and trans people of color at the margins even within trans spaces.

Anti-Trans Rhetoric and Ableism

Anti-trans campaigners weaponize ableist presumptions of incompetence, claiming autistic youth are “brainwashed” into trans identities—rhetoric with devastating real consequences. This includes autistic people excluded from trans youth support groups for having intellectual disabilities, persistent misgendering and deadnaming in psychiatric hospitals, and pressure to seek “cure-oriented” autism treatment as precondition for gender-affirming care.

Material Conditions and Structural Barriers

Compounded marginalization affects material conditions: autistic trans people of color face elevated unemployment, housing instability, and criminalization. Executive dysfunction combined with housing precarity, multiple jobs, or natural disasters further deteriorates capacity for paperwork-heavy tasks like maintaining updated identification documents, accessing benefits, or filing discrimination complaints.

Misdiagnosis Crisis and Mental Health

Systematic Misdiagnosis Patterns

Autistic transgender and non-binary people face alarming rates of mental health misdiagnosis. From age 17 to 42, one author was repeatedly institutionalized and misdiagnosed with schizophrenia, receiving harmful medications. This 25-year period of misdiagnosis is not uncommon among older autistic people, especially those with concurrent gender dysphoria.

Autistic people have been systematically misdiagnosed with social phobia, schizophrenia, social anxiety, borderline personality disorder, and other mental health conditions. This widespread misdiagnosis contributes significantly to elevated depression and suicidality rates (41% of transgender people vs. 5% general population; 10% additional suicide attempts among autistic teens above non-autistic rates).

Contributing Factors

Professional services designed to help often cause harm through Applied Behavior Analysis and restrictive therapeutic models that teach people to ignore internal signals, cognitive-behavioral therapy models that feel like “winning the game” without meaningful wellbeing, therapists lacking training in both autism and gender identity, and progressive views on one identity combined with archaic views about the other.

The Transformative Power of Validation

The turning point comes when professionals listen and truly hear autistic transgender and non-binary people, providing validation and allowing authentic self-expression. Being believed and permitted to transition releases people from profound uncertainty. The biggest barriers involve difficulty connecting with internal experience and confusion in “joining the dots” to communicate or interpret what others say. Once professionals help create coherence and the person transitions, being in the right gender “illuminates and clears away some of the debris that not being understood had caused.”

Gender Performance and Social Transition

Social Transition Challenges

Social transition encompasses changes to name, pronouns, legal documents, and social presentation. For autistic transgender people, this presents unique challenges. Documentation management becomes complicated by executive function difficulties that make tracking and updating multiple records across different systems challenging. Context management involves difficulty managing different gender presentations across various social contexts. Social signaling creates challenges interpreting and responding to social feedback about transition. Emotional processing involves alexithymia and interoceptive differences that complicate recognizing dysphoria/euphoria patterns.

Gender Recognition Procedures

Institutional barriers create significant obstacles. Gatekeeping means gender clinics may require “proof” of transness using neurotypical standards, dismiss autistic people’s gender identity, or prioritize medical over non-binary transitions. Living requirements create problems when criteria like “living your gender in the world” disadvantage unemployed autistic transgender people or those unable to safely express gender identity. Binary prioritization means many systems focus on male/female transitions, excluding non-binary identities. Medical prioritization means systems often prioritize surgical outcomes over holistic gender affirmation.

Therapeutic Frameworks and Interventions

Distinguishing Presentations

Careful differential assessment helps professionals distinguish genuine gender diversity from other presentations in autistic people. Gender as Special Interest vs. Obsessive Compulsion: Some autistic people develop fascinations appearing obsessive. Differentiating between intense interest (leading to pleasure in understanding and researching) and obsessive compulsive disorder (leading to intense anxiety) is essential.

Self-Identity Struggles Mistaken for Gender Dysphoria: Some autistic people conclude “Since I don’t feel like others and can’t find my place, I must be a different gender.” This significant presentation requires serious support, but doesn’t necessarily indicate genuine gender diversity.

Conflict vs. Authentic Gender Diversity: For some autistic people, gender identity conflict stems from denial of autism diagnosis; for others, it arises from social struggle or desire for transformative change.

Clinical Guidelines

Clinical guidelines recommend recognizing that autistic adolescents may have limited self-awareness and struggle to recognize gender concerns until later development. Understanding that rigid, black-and-white thinking may lead to impulsive decisions. Encouraging exploration over time in clearly exploratory phases before considering medical treatments. Providing positive social experiences through group activities increasing self-esteem. Addressing executive function impairments through coaching-type support and visual organization tools. Reducing victimization risk by encouraging assertiveness and providing access to adapted virtual support groups.

Supporting Autistic Transgender People

Reducing Masking Demands

Supporting autistic transgender and non-binary people means reducing overall demands for performance, not just accepting one aspect while maintaining pressure on others. Help people distinguish between compromises necessary for physical safety and those reflecting harmful internalized expectations. Support gradually reducing non-essential performance as safety allows.

Encourage sensory grounding and present-moment awareness practices. Validate that living authentically is worth the social risk. Provide concrete safety planning for situations requiring code-switching. Celebrate moments of authentic self-expression.

Accommodations for Gender-Affirming Care

Sensory Accommodations include negotiating touch boundaries for medical exams, warning before touching and asking permission. Minimize sensory input during appointments through dim lighting, reduced background noise, allowing fidgets. Provide advance notice of appointment changes or rescheduling. Allow breaks during longer appointments. Use soft textures for medical clothing or coverings.

Communication Accommodations include using plain language, avoiding jargon or implicit communication. Provide written information to supplement verbal explanations. Ask one question at a time. Allow processing time for responses. Provide concrete examples rather than abstract concepts.

Interoception-Aware Assessment means rather than asking about genital dysphoria directly, ask about social experiences of gender. Explore gender through activities and social roles rather than solely embodied experience. Allow people to describe dysphoria in non-standard terms (e.g., “color states” instead of feelings).

Advocacy and Structural Change

Professional Responsibilities

Professionals with power or influence have ethical obligations to advocate beyond individual-level support. Defend Trans Youth, Clients, and Co-Workers: Insist others use correct names and pronouns, directly correcting misgendering. Challenge discriminatory language or policies when encountered. Provide institutional support when people face bullying or exclusion.

Support Access to Affirming Spaces: Advocate for gender-neutral facilities and bathrooms. Create non-gendered support groups with optional self-identified affinity spaces. Challenge policies that force disclosure or create unnecessary barriers.

Combat Misdiagnosis: Educate colleagues about autism-gender dysphoria co-occurrence. Train professionals to distinguish autistic presentation from mental illness. Advocate for removal of pathologizing frameworks from professional practice.

Youth Liberation and Disability Justice

Paternalism—the belief that adults know what’s best for children and disabled people better than they know themselves—has historically justified harmful interventions. Applied Behavior Analysis and conversion therapy represent extreme examples, using punishment and aversive conditioning to force compliance and normalization.

A youth liberation and disability justice framework recognizes that children and disabled people are full persons with valid rights and interests, and needing support does not diminish capacity for autonomy. This approach supports genuine protection (preventing harm) while rejecting coercive normalization. Professionals enable autonomy by providing knowledge, language, accommodations, and advocacy rather than forcing compliance.

Institutional Barriers and Legal Considerations

Healthcare Discrimination

Institutional barriers create significant exclusion: 50% of non-binary people report never feeling comfortable disclosing their gender identity to a doctor, and 69% report never feeling comfortable coming out to police. These institutional barriers mean that disclosure risks remain high while support remains uncertain.

Non-binary and transgender autistic people often face additional barriers to recognition procedures. The UK gender-reassignment process, for example, prioritizes sexual reassignment over non-binary identities and includes criterion of “living your gender in the world”—problematic for unemployed autistic transgender people.

Documentation and Records Management

Autistic individuals accessing many services means more records exist, and executive function difficulties compound the challenge of tracking and updating all documents to reflect correct name, pronouns, and gender marker. Professional support must involve awareness of who has access to written records and whether the person has consented to being “outed” to those individuals. Retroactive correction of documents is often crucial to prevent ongoing vulnerability.

Criminalization and Legal Vulnerability

Trans panic defenses—legal defense claiming victim’s gender identity justifies perpetrator’s violence—remain present in some jurisdictions. Walking while trans statutes (repealed in New York in 2021) have been used to profile and detain trans women, particularly trans women of color.

Decriminalization efforts—including repealing prostitution, drug use, and homelessness criminalization—are essential for protecting trans people of color who face extraordinary risk of criminalization due to survival necessity.

Lifespan Perspectives and Aging

Older Autistic Transgender Experiences

Older autistic transgender and non-binary people may experience delayed realization of gender identity due to poor interoception preventing recognition of dysphoria, lack of autism awareness leading to misdiagnosis, absence of gender language or frameworks in earlier decades, and professional gatekeeping that refused to diagnose gender dysphoria in autistic individuals.

One older transgender man describes how his slow processing speed delayed connection between masculine identification and the concept of gender dysphoria despite consistent masculine presentation throughout life. Only through supportive professional relationships that helped him “join the dots” could he articulate and act on his gender identity.

Wisdom and Experience

Age itself becomes a resource—accumulated wisdom, understanding, and learning capacity support authentic integration. One author describes transition as “a journey that puts us on the right road, but it is only the start to a lifetime of discovery.”

Intergenerational Support

Older autistic transgender people offer valuable wisdom and perspective for younger generations. Their experiences navigating decades without appropriate diagnosis or support provide insights into resilience, identity development, and the importance of community and validation.

Family and Community Support

Parent and Family Understanding

Families of autistic transgender and non-binary people benefit from understanding that elevated rates of gender variance in autistic people reflect authentic identity rather than confusion. Interoceptive and cognitive differences create different pathways to self-knowledge. Masking and suppression create profound psychological harm. Validation and support are more therapeutic than attempts to change or fix.

Community Building

Supportive communities recognize the importance of autistic-led spaces that also affirm gender diversity, the value of transgender-led spaces that accommodate neurodivergence, the need for intersectional approaches that address multiple marginalized identities, and the significance of peer support and shared lived experience.

Partnership and Relationship Support

Partners of autistic transgender people benefit from understanding communication differences and sensory needs, the impact of masking and burnout on relationship dynamics, the importance of clear, direct communication about needs and boundaries, and the transformative effect of gender affirmation on overall wellbeing and functioning.